If you are a member of business oriented online Social Networking groups, and you should be, you might become convinced that business social networking is a bunch of hooey.
Hooey: noun – silly or worthless talk, writing, ideas, etc.; nonsense; bunk: as in… That’s a lot of hooey and you know it!
Understand that SocNets are a subset of Social Media including websites like Facebook, LinkedIn, and MySpace. SocNets are different in purpose from Blogs or content sharing websites like YouTube, Flickr, and Squidoo or from bookmarking sites, etc. SocNet group participation is for connecting with people with similar interests and building relationships, not for direct sales activities.
For example, LinkedIn is one of the prime business social networking websites. It is organized around an endless number of Groups that are each devoted to a specific category or area of business interest. Each Group has a discussion section and news area to post topics of interest to the group.
But in many Groups, 80% of the discussion and news postings are thinly disguised advertisements. These quasi-ad posts will have an interesting headline, but the body of the post contains a couple of self-serving statements followed by a link to the author’s business website. Click on the link and you are taken to a sales oriented landing page.
Wrong, wrong, wrong. That is a bunch of hooey from the viewer’s perspective. People scanning SocNet posts are interested in discussions, useful news, or exchanging job information. In B2B SocNets, viewers may be in the market for something, but if yes are mostly at the ‘becoming aware or doing research ‘ top or middle areas in the sales funnel, but seldom in the ‘ready to buy’ bottom of the funnel.
It’s like going to a Chamber event to ‘network’. My experience is that most participants attending networking events are there to socialize with friends or to try to immediately sell something to ‘prospects’. They certainly are not there to buy something. So the room is filled with friendly chat or sellers and few if any buyers.
The typical networking ‘seller’ meets, in their mind, a ‘prospect’ and quickly regurgitates an elevator speech hopeful that they will snag a sale. The other person only hears blah, blah, blah while waiting their turn to unload their elevator speech. Of course the ‘buy from me now before you get to know me’ approach seldom works.
SocNets are often used in a similar manner with poor results. Check out the comments count for quasi-ad SocNet posts and they are usually zero. Sure, some folks might click on the web page link in the post, but I suspect the frequency is about the same as responses to hated SPAM email messages.
One suggestion for live networking events is to introduce yourself and quickly ask the other party what they do rather than launching into a spiel about how wonderful and fascinating YOU are. Make the discussion about them by asking questions to show you are paying attention. 9 times out of 10 when they are done, they will ask you what you do and pay better attention. And don’t do a general sales spiel – use what you learned about them to suggest specific areas where you might be able to add value for them. Above all, be patient, its like dating and you just met!
There is also a right and wrong way to use biz SocNets. Unfortunately many people use them as an extension of their conventional mass marketing methods hoping to catch a quick sale. It is better to start by asking for information or help on some topic. Then look for responses that offer a chance to build relationships by reciprocating with info of value to the responder and group at large.
Or add value by looking for posts that are asking for info or advice in an area of your expertise. Provide answers without immediate expectations for business results – build your expert status by creating credibility in the relationship.
SocNets should be used to collaborate, find solutions, and connect & communicate with people with similar or complimentary interests. Get to know each other, add value, and earn each other’s trust. Business results will follow and that’s no hooey.
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